Belated Happy Birthday to MJ

Last Friday, my best friend turned the big 1-0. Well, 4-0, but as a leap year baby she ages on a different schedule than the rest of us mere mortals. Just like her date of birth, MJ is a rarity, something out of time and space. She is the most loving and generous person that I know. I have known her for seven years and I owe a great deal to her kindness, wise counsel and clear head.

She also hasn't worked in tech for about five years, so we are capable of having a conversation that is not about computers, semiconductors, telecommunications, free software, free beer, etc. Who knew this was actually possible?

Amongst the fun of the festivities, I had the privledge of tending bar at the party. The house speciality, the Apple Citrine, was quite popular. I think the fresh apple slices really make the beverage. A proper cocktail requires fruity goodness. I rather like making the Apple Citrine, so just ask me whip you one up should the situation ever present itself. It's always nice to make your friends a delightful beverage, but I also just dig cocktail shakers. They're shiny and the noise the ice makes in media res of shaking is like nothing else. Yes, yes I am easily amused.

And as Kodak Gallery doesn't allow you to embed images from their site - imagine me shaking my fist here - you'll have to go with a text only description. MJ's new boyfriend Steve put a lot of work into making her party awesome, including hiring a fantastic live band. When we were prepping together it was utterly obvious that he was throwing his entire heart and soul into the gathering. You can never tell what people are like behind closed doors, but I can imagine he does the same for her on a daily basis. I can't articulate how pleased I am that she has found someone who is worth her time and trouble, who appreciates and understands that MJ is an actual treasure.

Much love to you, my BFF. To another 40 years in your precious light.